STatement berqualiti

Ni Yanz ambik dr Wall kawan di Facebook... Anas Kacak (kacak ek kau..)

"I still believe the statement, "Good People Leave". Am I that good?"

Yanz dah select yang mana baik di simpan.. hehehe

Salary Day... !!!

This entry were dedicated to all husband, pakwe, balaks, or even jantan2 at outside there... just to ensure your money is much much utilised with "appropiate occasion" and you know the way to expend it WITH the best bandwith.. hahahhaha

Just joking... otherwise you will endup with "makan pasir" before the end of the month, before next salary payment !

be carefull and be counted in your monthly expenature statement or records...

The scenario : Husband and Wife "aja-aja-fighting" during salary day !.

Wife : Where is your salary?

Hubby : Hah... always asking about my money...
Wife : Show me your pockets !... (the clock clicking... )
Hubby : thinking to answer and .....Still thinking what she would to do next...

Husband : I will not give you all the money.... you will spend all my money !!!! Huhhh !
Wife : What ever!.. I want to go shopping now !!... i need the money... give me now.

Sometime after long fighting & argument
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Wife : Thank you darling... muahhhhh !

Morale : for hubby.. ensure you have a plan backup before you reach your home,... hahhahaha

Budak 7 tahun dapat A peperiksaan A-level

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Email : Shah Bundy

LONDON - Seorang budak lelaki berumur tujuh tahun, Yasha Ayari Asley menjadi individu termuda di dunia lulus peperiksaan A-level dalam mata pelajaran matematik dengan memperoleh gred A, lapor sebuah akhbar semalam.

Yasha dari Leicester memberitahu: "Apabila saya melihat kertas soalan, saya menganggap ia akan menjadi mudah. Terdapat satu soalan yang berlegar dalam fikiran saya iaitu bagaimana cara untuk melakukannya sebelum saya mendapat jawapan. Baki soalan lain okey."

Pencapaian Yasha akan membolehkan dia disenaraikan dalam rekod selepas seorang budak perempuan berumur lapan tahun, Zohaib Ahmed turut mendapat gred A pada Januari tahun lalu.

Bapanya, Moussa, 47, berkata: "Dia berasa gembira tetapi ia tidak dapat menandingi bagaimana terujanya saya. Ia merupakan satu pencapaian yang mengagumkan. Saya berasa bangga dengannya."

Menurutnya, jika Yasha mendapat biasiswa, dia mungkin menamatkan ijazah universiti sebelum berumur sepuluh tahun.

Moussa berkata: "Dia mempunyai bakat belajar."

Yasha merupakan murid sebuah sekolah rendah di tahun tiga tetapi Moussa yang berketurunan Iran mendaftarkan anaknya mengambil A-level tanpa pengetahuan guru besarnya.

Moussa membesarkan anaknya itu sendirian selepas dia bercerai dengan isterinya semasa umur Yasha berumur setahun.

sumber dari : 
http://paapaada.blogspot.com
http://idhamlim.blogspot.com

6 Steps to Stop Being Manipulated

Throughout life, there are times when we may come across an individual or a situation where a person is very dominant, controlling and possibly even manipulative. Sometimes it is a boss who doesn’t allow us to voice our opinions. Sometimes it is a family member who is very demanding and finds ways to get us to manipulate us into doing what they want. And sometimes, it may be a friend who is very pushy and demands that others do things their way, on their time schedule, forgetting that those around them are affected in the process.


This can frustrate us, making us feel stifled, and worst of all, powerless. And although it may come to a head only once in awhile, if we are in a relationship or friendship where this happens on a frequent basis, it can take a toll, and we can lose our sense of worth and even worse, sense of self. It can be debilitating. The only way we can avoid these feelings is to take the power back, and empower ourselves.

Let’s take an illustrative example of a friend who is perpetually late. You find it irritating and inconsiderate. Moreover, you resent the fact that her perpetual lateness causes you to be late as well. With this example in mind, here are six steps to empower yourself out of their control:

1.Take Charge of Your Life:
The only person who can really control your life is you. Start acknowledging how you feel about these situations. Start making decisions for yourself and prioritizing what is important to you. Example: Admit that your friend’s lateness bothers you. Think about the ideal situation and how you would like it to play out. Picture it in your mind.

2.Set Goals:
Setting goals allows us to stay true to what is important to us. Goals can be big or small. Whatever the case, create goals that are important to you and don’t let anyone else hurt your chances of reaching them. Example: If there is an event or function that you want to be on time for, set a goal that you will be on time no matter what.

3.State Your Opinion/Thought/Preference:
Once you have a goal in mind, state it out loud. State it to yourself and to the other person so they know where you stand. Be clear in voicing your expectation, and don’t leave anything up to the imagination by assuming the person understands what you want. Example: State to the individual who is always late that it is very important to you that you are on time for the event. Let them know you are willing to go without them if they aren’t ready in time.

4.Stand Your Ground:
Wishywashiness isn’t going to help you in these situations. Don’t back down from what you believe, feel or want. Stand your ground and follow through with your plan to ensure your goal is met. Example: If the other person is late, leave without them. If you don’t, they will continue to assume that it is okay to push their schedule on you.

5.Stop Relying on Others for Approval:
Part of what allows us to be ruled by others is that we want their approval. The reality is, if you respect yourself and stand up for what you want, then others will start respecting you more for it. Example: If after you leave and the other person gets upset. Make it clear that you informed them you would leave without them. Don’t apologize. You did what was important to you and you stayed true to yourself.

6.Let go:
There will be times when these steps aren’t always possible. You might just find that a relationship is repetitively one-sided in consideration. Instead of getting upset, let go. Realize that the person isn’t going to change and that you have the power to not let it bother you. Find ways to ensure that you take care of yourself. Example: If the person continues to be late for everything, stay true to your priority and start going alone and stop caring. Let go of the feelings and just accept them for who they are and start empowering yourself to be the on-time person you want to be.

Empowering yourself is important. Waiting for others to empower you gets you nowhere. Have you had a relationship where you felt you had no power? What did you do to address the situation?

by Brett Blumenthal

5 Behaviors of Manipulative People

Many of us like to think the best of people. We like to think that they shoot straight and are forthright in their intentions. We also like to believe that they will ask for what they want and not resort to crazy tactics to get it. Unfortunately, however, there are times when we come across those who will do whatever it takes to get what they want...including manipulation. Being manipulated never feels good, but the worst part of manipulation is that often, we don’t even realize that it is happening.

Here are a few ways to know if someone is trying to manipulate you:


1. Buttering You Up:
To get their way, manipulators will often make you feel good so that they can then ask you to do something that they want. The person may first compliment you or tell you what a wonderful job you did on something. Making you feel good will, in their mind, make it difficult for you to say no…after all, you wouldn’t want to disappoint them or give them reason to think you didn’t deserve the compliment in the first place. What you can do: Return the compliments and the niceties before saying no.

2. Guilt:
This doesn’t only pertain to Catholics and Jewish Mothers; guilt trips have been a successful manipulation tactic for centuries. The saddest part of this strategy is that the victims of this tactic succumb to the manipulators’ demands because they feel they HAVE to, not because they WANT to. In personal relationships, this sets up a co-dependency that is extremely unhealthy. What you can do: Ask the individual if they want you to do something because you have to or because you want to. If they say they want you to want to do it, tell them that you don’t and that they are trying to force you into something you don’t feel comfortable with.

3. Broken Record:
Probably the most obvious of formats is the broken record tactic. If a person asks you enough or pushes their agenda enough…constantly repeating the question or request over and over again…in slightly different ways, the victim will inevitably give in and give them what they want. Oye! What you can do: Ask the individual what they don’t understand about the word “no.” Tell them that asking you over and over again isn’t going to change anything and that they are inappropriately over-stepping boundaries.

4. Selective Memory:
This one gets me the most. You swear you have a conversation about a plan and everyone is on the same page, and then one day, the manipulator pretends to remember the conversation completely differently, if at all. What you can do: Record your conversations…seriously! Okay, maybe not. At least have a witness that you can count on to back you up if the person pulls this shenanigan. Call them out on the fact that they conveniently change the game to fit their needs.

5. Bullying:
If a person doesn’t get their way, they make you out to look or feel like the bad guy…like you are the wrong one. What you can do: Be firm and tell them that their bullying tactics are inappropriate and unacceptable.

Keep your eyes open for these behaviors and continue to stand your ground to ensure that you aren’t a victim of manipulation. Have you seen any other types of manipulative behavior?


by Brett Blumenthal